Getting stuck in our past keeps us from living in the present. And for me, that stickiness has not only robbed me of my present, but it also stalled out my ability to plan a better, happier version of those anniversaries in the future.

Vacations aren’t supposed to be a competition. There’s no one waiting at home with a prize—no blue ribbon—at the end.

Harvard Business Review assures us resilience is about how you recharge, not how you endure. We’ll see.